
Distinctive Voice Therapy & Wellness PLLC
Sheila Heard, LCPC, NCC

Self-awareness is when you’re conscious of yourself, the life happening around you, and the choices you make. It’s basically waking up inside your own life instead of just moving through it.
Self-awareness is important because it supports healing, understanding, and better decision-making. When you understand you, everything else starts making more sense.
The Problem With Not Being Self-Aware
When you’re not self-aware, you operate on autopilot. You’re alive, but not present. Because of that, you can:
Miss out on what’s right in front of you
Misinterpret people, situations, and energy
Misunderstand yourself
Walk into drama or problems without realizing how you got there
A lack of awareness makes it hard to read your own emotions, other people’s intentions, or the energy of a situation. That’s how you end up in messes, conflicts, or patterns that keep repeating.
What Happens When You Are Self-Aware
When you’re self-aware, every choice you make has meaning behind it. You understand why you’re doing what you’re doing, and you understand the outcomes it leads to. You move with intention instead of accident.
How to Become More Self-Aware
Becoming self-aware doesn’t always start with trauma or something dramatic. It can come from a random moment where your reality finally catches up with you. A moment where you stop, look at your life, and realize:
“Wait… I want to understand myself better.”
Awareness can come from:
Observing your thoughts and emotions
Asking yourself why you react the way you do
Paying attention to patterns
Taking accountability without beating yourself up
Being present instead of checked out
Sometimes it’s a slow shift. Sometimes it’s a single realization that opens your eyes. Either way, it’s the beginning of living on purpose.





